Right or wrong?

Its realli funny how people think.

" I am right! You are wrong!" "I'm always right!"

Who defines what is right and what is wrong? Me? You? Or more of people from the past, their general experience bla bla bla. However, right or wrong is clearly depicted by what is socially accepted as correct or wad is socially accepted as incorrect.

Thoh standards and rules had been made for people in the society to play the game well, why do i still see people standing by their principles and thinkings when i percieved it as utterly wrong?

For e.g. I was watching "Destiny in your hand" just now (the chinese drama serial on channel 8). When Cen Fei asked her husband for permission to touch her own baby, her husband actually yelled at her that she can't, cos she had her friends to back her up and she is "going to leave" the house. And all along, its her husband that actually force her to take such a move due to his extreme jealousy and possessiveness. But still, he claimed that he is right for not letting his wife to even see her child.

So, does he have what is wrong and what is right all mixed up? How can one possibly claimed that he is right all the time? And never ever feel remorsed or regretful for what he/she has done. Even when he plots up to cheat SiQi's Dad's biz and made him bankrupt and eventually resulted in his suicide, he still claim that SiQi's dad is too naive to be a bizman and its SiQi's Dad stupid to end his life in a suicide.

The thing i felt funny and simply amused is.. whats wrong with all these people? Are they crazy? I do find a murder who eventually remorsed or feel guilty for killing someone a right kind of emotion. Cause killing and murder is something that is socially accepted as wrong. But some people could just get things all reversed. And they can actually exclaimed strongly and stand by their "right" opinion and views.

Thus, sometimes.. it really makes mi wonder.. what things on earth can actually make an individual have such an extreme and reversed thinkings? What made them changed their values, their principles? Peer-pressure? Pressure from the society? Pressure from school? Pressure from family?

Maybe it doesn't really matter what is right or wrong. Most importantly is what you feel is right or wrong that matters. Cos, thats what you act on, on the basis of wad you feel is right.