be understanding to others does not equates to being understanding to yourself

How long can a person remain silent? How long can a person bears to suffer alone? How long can a person endure loneliness? How long? How long?

For once, we don't really know what our limits really is.. everyone has one.. but its onli when something in life turns out to be challenging it, then will us know where our limits are..

Many times, even when certain things happened.. we may choose to "open one eye, close one eye". Its trying to be understanding? trying to be open-hearted? trying to feel the willingness to accept other people's fault. But also, its this little thots of letting the matter peace, which may in turn turns out to be the stepping stones for even bigger, and serious problems to escalate on.

We will always like to accept others' imperfectness into consideration when certain things that occurs to us are deemed hurtful or pain. However, I have already learnt the lesson that if ever, I tried to hide and take it as nothing has happened.. in the near future, these stuffs which i thot was onli a minute event will really add tonnes to burning angers and anxiety.

Its really important to challenge the problem right the minute it occurs. trying to be understanding may eventually hurt u even more than before..